Thought #1 – Forgive.

Forgiveness can be one of the hardest things you’ll ever do, especially when it’s extended to someone close to you. 

Some people say you shouldn’t forgive unless the person asks for forgiveness, while others say you should forgive even if the person doesn’t ask for forgiveness. What do you say? Not sure? 

I think your decision on who should be forgiven can be determined by answering the following question: “Who will benefit the most when you forgive someone—you? the person being forgiven? or both? 

Thought #2 – Freedom.

Freedom is finally realizing who you are, and that you are not responsible for anyone else’s behavior but your own.

Thought #3 – Holding on to Grudges

Holding on to something someone has done to you 5, 10, 15, or 20 years ago is unhealthy. It ultimately makes you bitter and unhappy. 

Think about it, when you see that person, don’t you get a twinge in the pit of your stomach? And doesn’t your heart race as you become angry all over again because seeing them reminds you of what they did to you?

How about if you notice that person is at an event you are attending, don’t you find yourself doing all you can to avoid bumping into that person?

Now, ask yourself, is it worth living your life being controlled by someone else’s actions? 

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Quote for the Week

You must know yourself to grow yourself.

-John C. Maxwell

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An Article for You

Don’t Underestimate the Power of Self-Reflection

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Reflection Questions

• Who do you need to forgive today?
• What is preventing you from experiencing freedom?
• Who are you allowing to control your life because of a grudge you are holding on to, and what can you do today to prevent this from happening in the future?

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