By - Dr. Charlene Bolton

NL # 69 – Networking Essentials. Building Authentic Connections. Networking Confidence Building.

Thought #1 – Networking Essentials.

Networking is more than just exchanging business cards or adding connections on LinkedIn. It’s about building relationships that provide mutual benefits over time. To network effectively, approach it with the mindset of what you can offer rather than what you can get. This shift in perspective encourages genuine interactions and lays a foundation for trust and collaboration.

Remember, your network can significantly influence your career trajectory and personal growth, so treat it with the importance it deserves.

Thought #2 – Building Authentic Connections.

Authenticity is key in making meaningful connections. People can sense when interactions are superficial or transactional, and most prefer relationships based on genuine interest and mutual respect. Start by showing sincere curiosity about others. Ask open-ended questions that go beyond professional titles to understand their passions and challenges.

By focusing on the quality of connections over quantity, you create a supportive network that enhances both personal satisfaction and professional opportunities.

Thought #3 – Networking Confidence Building.

Many people feel nervous about networking, worried about saying the wrong thing or not being interesting enough. To build your confidence, start in environments where you feel most comfortable, perhaps at smaller, more intimate gatherings before tackling large conferences. 

Prepare a few talking points about recent industry trends, a book you found insightful, or even a hobby you’re passionate about. These can serve as conversation starters that also allow your personality to shine through.


Quote for the Week

The successful networkers I know, the ones receiving tons of referrals and feeling truly happy about themselves, continually put the other person’s needs ahead of their own.  

– Bob Burg

An Article for You

A Beginner’s Guide to Networking

  • What value can you bring to your next networking opportunity that might help someone else?
  • How can you express your genuine interest in others to foster more meaningful connections?
  • Think of a networking situation that made you anxious. What steps can you take to feel more confident in future interactions?

This newsletter invites you to rethink networking as an essential and enriching part of your professional landscape. It’s about building bridges that not only lead to opportunities but also foster personal and professional growth.